5 Ideas to Toss in the Trash Instead of More Stuff

Downright adorable ugly potatoes from the farmer's market
Downright adorable ugly potatoes from the farmer’s market

1. Perfection

Thank you to Karen from the blog Farminista’s Feast for inspiring this post. A huge amount of fruit and vegetables goes to waste simply because it fails to meet the strict cosmetic standards of grocery stores. On a post I wrote recently about ugly apples my daughter bought to make pies, Karen commented “As a culture, we have to dispose of the myth of visual ‘perfection’ be it fruit or otherwise. Let’s toss that myth in the landfill instead of all the food!!!”

Hear hear!

2. Big Everything

My daughter says I sound like a crazy conspiracy theorist when I write about Big Food, Big Soda, Big Ag, Big Pharma… I think an image of “The Madwoman in the Cabin” comes to her mind—alone, dreadlocked, living in the woods with no access to running water, cuddling up to a rifle at night. (How I wish I had a pic of this.) I’m not quite there. And wouldn’t Big Whatever prefer that image over one of a (mostly) normal female head of household who controls the purse strings on every single food purchase? There are so many of us after all. Imagine if we all went small. How terrifying for corporate America.

When we shop small, more of our money stays in our community to support schools, roads, the fire department…you know, the backbone of our neighborhoods. I shop at the farmer’s market and I try to shop small and local for staples like milk, flour, butter and so on, although I do live close to Whole Foods and buy quite a bit in the bulk section there. I do my best (see #1).

3. Ruthless Individualism


I love the sign in the pic above. I found it on the Grow Food not Lawns Facebook page. If you follow me on social media, you may also know that I have a crush on Ron Finley, the gangster gardener who plants gardens in the food desert of South Central LA. Similarly, Pastor Richard Joyner also grows healthy food in his community to feed the poor and improve their health. NFL player Jason Brown traded a $37 million career for a farm on which he sustainably grows real food that he donates to struggling individuals in his community. The list of food heroes keeps growing. Oh and how could I forget Guerrilla Grafters? This stealth group in San Francisco grafts fruit-bearing branches onto ornamental trees throughout the city, with the aim of turning the streets into an urban food forest. I love their motto: “Undoing civilization one branch at a time.”

This practice of sharing food just keeps gaining steam. It represents the real sharing economy—unlike Uber. I find this trend very exiting and it gives me hope. Let’s share our bounty! Every man for himself isn’t working.

4. Homogeneity

One of the many things I love about fermentation is its inconsistency. (And this comes from a recovering perfectionist.) I find this inconsistency charming.

Sure when I baked bread with commercial yeast I knew what I would get and had basically no learning curve. Proof yeast + add flour + knead + proof loaves + bake = yummy bread. But I find that baking this way doesn’t engage me with the natural world in the same way that baking with a sourdough starter (aka wild yeast) does. I do follow a recipe for sourdough bread but I also observe, paying attention to the feel, taste and smell of the dough—listening to what is has to tell me. And it teaches me something every time I bake.

Homogeneity comes from control. We can’t control nature and I can’t control the microbes fermenting my sourdough. I can only guide them. I may get a great crumb, the bread may taste more sweet or it may taste more sour. Occasionally I have a PBF (partial bread failure). It’s all an adventure.

5. Instant Gratification

Local flowers from the farmer’s market

We demand what we want when we want it. And here in the U.S. (if we have the cash) we can get what we want when we want it: strawberries in the dead of winter, flowers flown in from Columbia or Ecuador and sugar for breakfast, lunch and dinner. Well the strawberries have no flavor, those flowers make a huge carbon footprint (the chemical fertilizers, the pesticides, the energy-guzzling refrigerators and the flights) and sugar is toxic (I’m trying to eat less of it…it tastes so good…).

Marshmallows contain a lot of sugar…but with them, psychologist Walter Mischel found that kids who can delay gratification do better in life. In the 1960s at Stanford, he conducted a now-famous study in which researchers presented kids with a treat, such as a marshmallow or cookie. The researchers explained that they would leave the room for a few minutes. During that time, if the kids did not eat the marshmallow (or other treat), they would get two upon the return of the researcher. The study followed these kids for many years. The kids who had delayed gratification went on to “perform better academically, earn more money, and be healthier and happier…[and] avoid a number of negative outcomes, including jail time, obesity, and drug use.”

I think refusing those strawberries in winter and waiting until June for the real thing may have a similar effect on our happiness. Anticipation for those sweet, local, in-season berries will satisfy us all the more.

18 Replies to “5 Ideas to Toss in the Trash Instead of More Stuff”

  1. I love your inspirational posts, Anne-Marie.

  2. I love all of your points here! This is exactly how I feel, too, thank you for posting this.

    1. You’re welcome Karen. Thanks so much for reading it and commenting 🙂

  3. I love how positive and encouraging you generally are with your posts but that you also sometimes just call a spade “a spade”. All these things to “dump” apply as much to life as to food.

    PS – I agree. There is much more power in being a contrary “ordinary person” than a contrary hippy!

    1. Thank you so much. I love that–contrary ordinary person 🙂

  4. I especially like your comments regarding the rejection of homogeneity. Up with quirkiness 😉

    1. Thanks so much. I am with you. Quirky all the way 🙂

  5. Why is this such a hard sell? It makes so much sense . Those flowers are stunning.

    1. It is a hard sell Hilda. We’re so used to consuming like crazy. I feel like that’s (slowly) changing though.

  6. I think everyone should follow the “in season” mantra..happens here all the time but I love it and you so appreciate that first crop don’t you? By the way the flowers are beautiful 🙂

    1. I agree. Food in season tastes so much better. And you appreciate it more. That flower stand at my farmer’s market does a really nice job 🙂

  7. Reblogged this on Sustainable in Holdfast Bay and commented:
    Today I want to share a post from one of my favourite bloggers. Anne Marie lives in an intentional community in the San Francisco Bay Area and went (nearly) plastic-free in 2011. In this post, she talks about trashing erroneous ideas instead of valuable resources.

    1. Thanks so much for the reblog Veronique. I like your summary of the post too 🙂

  8. Thank you for another great post Anne Marie. I hope you don’t mind me re-blogging it!

    1. Not at all! I’m honored Veronique 🙂

      1. That is a relief! I realised, after re-blogging, that I should have asked first 🙂

      2. Oh no, I love the reblogs. I’m always happy when people reblog my posts 🙂

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